What Values Us most in life?

What Values Matter Us Most in Life?

I believe each of us come to this world with a purpose to fulfill. Whether we like it or not, it was all set.  Whether we know it or not, it was all planned and arranged.  We are where we are today, sometime we think we have made the choices, but in most cases to most people, given a chance, we would think there is another better choice if we can restart our life again!

Why are we working so hard, despite knowing the truth that none of the assets, money, certificates or people that came into our life can never be brought along  when we go to the grave yard or when our ashes rest in the urns or float in the deep blue sea?  So why do we still work so hard?  Thinking that we can leave a legacy to children or relatives who have never appreciated or worked for it?  Why are they deserving to inherit it in the first place?  Who on earth has set the rules commanding us to give them if it is not by our free will and willingness?

Sometimes I wonder, why are we worried so much when we know for sure that everything shall and will come to past?  Why do we bother to struggle and worry about things/events/people that we have no control?

But life is such that as long as we are able to breath, our blood flow, our spirit is alive, it has to go to do something or it has nothing to dofor this universe.  What is that something that we are focusing on?

1.   What is in our conscious mind
2.   What is in our sub-conscious mind
3.   The places where we want to go or we think that we need to go?
4.   The Friends and Sibling that we think we need to meet or spend time with?
5.   The business/Career that we shall focus in building it so to reflect our achievement?
6.    Is that the spouse we have or someone we love that is bothering us as the driving force of our
       life?
7.   The amount of Income that we think we shall acquire and possess in order to show our status
       or prove that we have existed in this world?
8.   The physical appearance / health that we are focusing to make us look younger, feel better?
8.   Is that our children that we need to focus or is there a desire that we need to fulfill?
9.   The amount of assets we shall buy or sell to keep our status quote in tact.
10.  Does happiness or prosperity count if we are able to retain, to maintain and to expand what we            already have in possession?  Will it last? and for how long can it last?
11.  Do we actually need to repay the gratitude to our parents for their hard work and commitment in        up bringing us or is this just a duty of world order that one generation is dutiful to breed the next        to keep the world  moving in orderly?
12.  Had past life really existed?  If it had, who were we then?  Is there a future life to get ourselves             to be reincarnated?  if there is, will we have a choice to chose our parents, the place where we              wanted to be born?



It is high time to ponder all these questions and start  soul searching!  What am i on this earth for and why do we exist?